How to get over soneone?
Can you fix a heart that has been broken beyond repair? I know that it seems impossible. I know that you see them in every face you meet, you find their traces in every little thing you see. I know they still haunt you in your dreams. I know how it feels when you remember all the colours and promises that are now shattered. I know it pinches hard somewhere and you can't stop blaming yourself. I know how it feels when you are so helpless and exhausted and all you want is to rush back to them.
But wait, stop and ask yourself "Is it worth it?" Isn't that you who's behind all the dilemma and not recognizing your worth? First, you need to get over that crispy-sad feeling you get when you intentionally recall the emotions (yeah it feels good but trust me it makes things worse)
Okay, sit next to your bed and cry all your heart out one last time. Spend a whole night awake one last time. See all the pictures one last time and delete them. Read the messages one last time. Stalk one last time. Listen to that one song that reminds you of everything one last time. Break things. Feel as much as you can. Cry. Bleed. Scribble. Sink. And then, get up and shine like a washed cliff. Stronger than you've been ever before.
Make sure that's the last time you melt and start over everything again and never look back. Eat. Travel. Laugh. Breathe. Forget. Forgive. Spend time with your friends. Value the ones who value you. There's soooo much more in life than to stuck at a point, right? Why let something drain your energy? And most importantly, don't EVER let someone steal your faith and trust in humanity. One bad experience doesn't mean a worst generalization. You are the best and you can do ANYTHING. But the condition- only if you want to do it. 🌸
Love y'all♥
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